Social psychology. Ece on the topic “A person can get along without riches, only not without a person” - (L. Berne)” What a person can do without a person

The German publicist and writer - Karl Ludwig Berne destroys the important problem of the need for a person to live among people, to be a member of a society. This problem is relevant in our time, because at the present moment there are impersonal people, who use strong methods to get out of society (introverts, as psychologists have mentioned), which leads to negative consequences for such people, which are becoming more and more.

Vislovlyuvannya Berne can be changed in different ways: for example, it means that people need other people in order to develop, to become better in the process of interaction with them, and, for example, people need people in order not to be selfish can lead to mental and nervous disorders.

I’ll wait with the author of this philosophizing, because I respect that all people need such a person, as they can help and support the twisted whim. And it’s also necessary for everyone to want to be present among people, to be in support and in every possible way interact with him, even if only in the process of socialization, individuals become special.

An individual is a single representative of the human race, without any intermediary wearer of natural-intellectual qualities.

Speciality - the whole human individual, which is the subject of svіdomої activity, which can be the collection of socially significant rice, yakosnosti and yakosties, which wines are realized in life.

This is a concrete example of people who went to civilization and society, trying to get together, hide people, hanging up their protest.

Ale chi tsey butt buv far away experiment? Let's apply from the history and literature.

For example, Theodore John Kaczynski (Unabomber) was a truly sensible person: he graduated from the university at 20 years of age, and at 26 years of age he became a doctor of mathematical sciences. Ale vin pishov vіd suspіlstva i 24 roki lived far away in civilization. And after that, like Theodore, turning to society, starting a terrorist activity: spreading bombs around the universities and airlines of the United States, in order to “progress, that we drive in nature.” So, it would be better if a person fights for the purity of that life of our nature, but civilized specialty would not become a terrorist, even if such people would destroy other members of the society. And why the stink is not a part of nature, for Theodore to fight like that? On the example of the life of a human being, you can grow visnovok, which degrades the specialty far from civilization and society.

In the novel by I.S. Turgenev “Fathers and Children”, the main character - Yevgen Bazarov - is a nihilist (a person who denies love, creativity, art), and people did not understand him, but wine, at his own side, not respecting someone else's thought she showed only her point of view. Whose hero can be called selfish. Ale share to rob you morally tested, and vіn zakohuєtsya in Hanna Sergievna Odintsova. Bazarov did not become happy and died, wisely, that he is not a mother of race, and such people, like wine, Russia does not need. The selfishness of this hero gives us an understanding that it is impossible to be in conflict with people and to become cremated among them, and also it is not possible to list the spiritually accepted spiritual values ​​of people, to that, be someone else. Similar is the conduct of leading up to misfortune, that awareness of the stupidity of the lived life.

L. Berne is absolutely right, stverdzhuyuchi, scho "a man can do without riches, only not without a man." Aje skin from us cannot become special without interaction with society. Historical facts and literary works confirm this. Suspіlstvo gives us the opportunity to become wise, civilized and wise people.

Updated: 2017-04-29

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“You can do without a lot of people, only not without people”

Today we meet with dozens or even hundreds of people. And then we rarely think that there were no such people, and we were left alone without our fathers, close friends, acquaintances, colleagues? Like bi mi managed without splkuvannya, without love to people, without friendship, without rules, too thin.

Like buttya people, like without people? I respect that people would not care, no life would be on their own. Win a moment to go through all the processes of socialization. So people are not attached to this world, and only for the help of people, people become people. The father chi opikuni wriggles the child, then we go out to the child's garden, to the school too soon. there you learn about new people, learn about life, master your culture, learn new knowledge that you can pass on to the next generation.

Crimia needs social needs, similar to the new one, such as collaborating with one-liners, introducing novelties that are found in the world, participating in the community life. The need in social institutions, the main thing without which a person could not get along, and could not satisfy the consumer herself, what enters the understanding: in the creation of the family, safety, spirituality and other needs, all the same is important for the singing historical background, which is passed on to the people to people.

A person could not live without a person, for if she fell ill first, then there is no other, she would vilify or help. Since ancient times, people have begun to unite due to natural causes, uniting with the method of saving life, with the method of protection against insecurity.

So it’s self-evident that everyone knows how to put it on, like a person grew up without people, with friends of forks, with dogs and everything in my soul. What was the result of such a life? Well, it’s important to call these people people, because. the stench was attached to another life, to creatures. The stench cannot speak, gorge itself with cutlery, the stench cannot live in suspense, and the smut of these intellectual vibes is not broken, live with sharpened instincts of self-preservation. Well, you won’t live like this for a long time?

A person can get away from the everyday speeches of life, like from: a TV set, a radio, a steam car, a water source and a lot of capital, people did without it. Ale people vzagalі can not do without people. A person without conscience wastes his individuality in the face of other creatures and is not able to lead a happy life. Wanting to know everything in equal measure, I’m good for it, that “Without a lot of people you can get by, only not without a person”, even if it’s perfectly so, we didn’t live and didn’t progress, yakbi buli on their own.

Dorivskikh Olena 11-in

Subject ese:

“A person can do without riches, only not without a person”
(L. Berne)

Vikonala: Gasanova A.

11th grade student

MKOU "ZOSH No. 12"

Kerivnik: Shamkhalova S.R.

teacher of spiritual science

MKOU "ZOSH No. 12"

Izberbash - 2015

Intro. The words of the famous German publicist and writer Ludwig Berne, “a man can do without riches, only not without a man,” we believe and it’s impossible to get along with him. The relevance of this discussion is that a person is socially and needs to be articulated. A spіlkuvannya є the main clerk shaping that becoming special.

main part . As a result of the development of modern science, we became aware of different types of needs: biological, social, spiritual.

From the necessary biological needs, the life of a person is taken care of, and at times the stench is consumed to the singing hardships (hunger, war, devastation, ailments toshcho).

If you talk about social needs, then we understand that a person cannot fully live without people, cannot attach himself to self-sufficiency. Vіn, if you stay for a trivalent hour, you can either god-will or just die. To wrap up my arguments, I would like to point out some arguments:

    The character from the work of R. Kipling is Mowgli, the child grew up in the midst of the forks and was wielded by them. In real life, such children are like Mowgli, as if they lived in a pose of human supremacy from the early century, they show a behavior characteristic of their adoptive fathers, for example, fear of people. The process of socialization folds, especially in children, like in the early years (five or six years) did not have a small connection with the succession. They can master human language, walk straight, wisely talk to other people. Navit fates, spent far away among people, de stinks took enough turboti, did not help them to become full members of the suspense. It is worth mentioning about those that are important for the development of a child's first life for the formation of social well-being and social behavior.

  1. Another argument against the fact that a person cannot live without his own kind is the character from the work of Daniel Defoe - Robinson Crusoe. Robinson, who leaned back after the accident of the ship on a deserted island, for 28 years he kept checks with people. For the idea of ​​\u200b\u200bvin mav bi perish or god-will. But if you think about it better, you can understand that the hero, in the face of self-sufficiency and inevitable death, vryatuval the very ability to “roam” with a parrot, and then with a tuber. Tse gave Robinson Crusoe a chance.
  2. An example from life. The subject is a child, like swaying at a dysfunctional family, relief from the father's splintering and splintering, breaking up with the suspense, often not seeing school, closures, lowering, self-esteem. All the while, to bring them to the point where they get used to alcohol and drugs, to begin to lead an asocial way of life. The child does not see problems and the results most often end tragically.

Visnovok. Visliv L. Berne is the truth, you can't help but wait. My people and we need other people to talk to them, share their experiences with them, give them all possible help, give support in important life situations.

Priming on the vyshchevikladeny, I make the following vysnovki:

in the basis of the basis of human suspіlstvo lie splіlkuvannya, and svіlkuvannya can only be for the obviousness of two and more osіb. Tse means that a person is on the very self of condemnations for death, and L. Berne mav ration, stverzhuyuchi, that "a person can do without riches, only not without a person."

“A person can do without riches, but only not without a person”, K. Berne

Vikonala: Yakovleva Katerina, grade 10, MOU gymnasium No. 3 named after M.F. Pankova

Kerivnik: Kitaeva Tetyana Kostyantinivna, teacher of history and modern science

I borrowed the speech of Karl Ludwig Berne - a German publicist and writer of the 19th century, a warm-hearted and astute polemist. In my opinion, the aphorism: “A person can do without riches, but only not without a person,” destroying the hospitality of social nutrition in the interplay and communication of people, the essence of human butt. I think that the famous writer is a maverick, a person is a biopsychosocial istota and one of the rich social needs and intelligence. Interaction with people, especially in our time, is one of the primary factors in skin life. Ale is a bold, broader look at the problem that is relevant in our day. Well, I’m sure that in this aphorism it was not only about all the suspense, like about a respectful clerk of the foundation, but about relatives and people close to us - family, friends. The stench will soon take us like this, like we are, with pardons, blows, we will spoil the mood and problems. It’s not without reason that the “motherland” is understood by the key words є spіlnіst, dopomoga, vіdpovіdalnіst: sіm'ya - founded on the basis of the heart of sporidnennosti small group, the members of which are supposed to be svіlnіst pobutu, mutual assistance, moral and legal vidpovіdnіdnіdnіdnі. I’ll give you a special example: recently, I came across an unacceptable situation - I got into a relationship with a person close to me. At the same time, the whole din of feelings was vibrating at the head, I was scrived, humiliated, embarrassed. We didn’t reconcile, and after a couple of days I found out that these people had problems at that moment, and I actually didn’t have a chance to talk to them heart to heart. If I felt it, the first thought was like: "Well, what if I have a reason, you can live well without close people." Ale potim me, I guessed all the slozi and all the money that I had after welding with friends, I spent a lot of money. Tієї zh mitі I zrazumila tsyu people, vіdchula fault and bazhannya sooner talk to her. This situation involuntarily prompted me to think about how good a person is to live, how to entrust many people from her, how to love and be ready to entrust to the next day. There were a few quiet in the world, some rude and ostentatious, some figuratively honest and not ready to compromise. It can be, it means that at home such a person is checked by a lover of her own, or a friend of her friends, and she is protected by their love, that she does not care for the need to choose from cooperating with other, third-party people. The very sight of close wines, as if it were another person, drawing the strength to live, be deprived of yourself, embrace the skin of a new day, not like a tragedy, but like a new opportunity, or an hour, a new one. People, who can reach someone at a difficult moment, weakly perceive the full value of such a gift. As soon as possible, we forget that our light from the color one at once transforms into black and white, as if close to it. People in life need not only the comfort of that otochyuchi, but also those who love you and whom you love yourself. In my life there were situations, if selfishness rose in the middle, like acid. It was the best thing that I was trapping in the sky, do I, guessing, miraculously wince and with a lighter mind that everything has passed. I am very happy that there will be no more such things in my life, even if the world simply does not have anything that can help at this moment. Life is consuming sense, and I am convinced that it seems like it will overwhelm not only me, but all people. Really, a person can die a wealth of material goods, but how can a person die? My opinion is no, "a person without people" is a paradox, and our life without them is just a little olive, and not a bright farb.

"Having obeyed the law of NATO, we are turning into a stone age", S. Parkinson

Vikonala: Vasyuta Anastasia, grade 11, MOU ZOSh No. 26

Kerivnik: Golubeva Lydia Ivanivna

In my opinion, S.Parkinson at his own use of maw on the vase, which is one of the most terrible waters in the world of the day and stretching the life of the history of humankind is baiduzhist. Ale yak dzherelo at tsієї wadi? NATO Angry at the shameful mass, a person wastes his individuality, his own thought, to himself. The person is subordinating the ardent thought of the yogo mass. "Crowd" is right to rob a whole bunch of enlightened and intelligent people, similar to the "human herd". Natovp religious fanatics at the sumnozvіsnu Bartholomiїvska killed none of them, not picking out anyone in front of her - a Catholic or a Huguenot. Yak saying H. Artega-i-Gaset: "Masa - tse bezlich without special advantages." A person cannot tumble forward, develop internally and develop, but someone around him, changing into the natovpі. Psychology is quite simple and unobtrusive. I am unsafe for an hour. Abo Natovp, bachachi is no longer the meta of their leader, takes everything in its own way and crosses over the mustache of moral principles (like a butt, you can look at genocide, the Holocaust and other nationalistic violations of the rights of people, if you press masses). Abo in natovpі without yaskravo-vrazhennogo leader to settle panic, yak lead to hysteria or mass bogeville. On the other hand, football fanatics are in the midst of mass confusion: they fell, beaten, acted vandalism, not worrying about the legacy. Hanging out in the NATO, the people succumb to the spontaneous onslaught and get angry with the greater. But to be ruined, it is possible, even more tragic - to trample on it (in direct and figurative sense). Vin becomes in the zhorstokostі and obzhezhnosti people. But what are you doing to NATO? Why are people afraid of conforming to the law of NATO? I think that is the eternal problem of selfishness. Shukayuchi vyhіd іz navkolishnoї empty, lyudyna naturally pragne people, not zamislyuchisya, chi dіysno їy tse necessary. Ale self-sufficiency is better to bring to NATO. And the "crowd" is generated a lot, in which the nebzhenіnі and nebozhannya develop independently, not without reason gifted, talented people of this selfishness. It’s a pity that the juveniles are often killed to kill the enemy. Not yet fully formed and did not know for themselves, young people, under the infusion of youthful maximalism, get bogged down in gray, or at the same time, under the onslaught of massism, a lot of people start smoking in the early years; the principle: "Must smoke - I will!" ) . Otzhe, "crowd" - tse, persh for everything, degradation, like there is no place in the life of a civilized person.

"You need to stand on your wet feet and marvel in the guise of light ... Bachity light like this, like wine, and not be afraid of yoga." Bertrand Russell

Pupils 9 "B" class Rogovskaya Alina MOU "Gymnasium №5"

Author: Evsyutkina Valentina Mikhailivna G. Khabarovsk

It is unlikely that there is a person who, in a second, after reading this quote, does not fit in with the idea of ​​\u200b\u200bvislovlyuvannya. Aje richly otochuyuchih constantly stverdzhuyut about the "correctness" of this thought. But why, then, in history, there are a lot of people, who turned into supremacy and tried to create their own “ideal” light, far away from human waters and nedolikiv? Commemorating the inharmony and injustice of life, some virishivs that it was easier to create a new society, to improve it significantly, they organized utopian communities. Such people were the stretchers of the earthly reason. Guess, how many philosophers, who were enchanted in life, tried to think of their own thoughts about the lifeless world? Apply Robert Owen, who left the English “illuminated society” and organized the communist productive community “New Harmony” in America, Emanoil Belechanu, the Romanian landowner and philanthropist, who turned his maetok into a phalanster. completely, harmoniously, the life of a closed, "dogless" suspense is impossible. Such pieces of creation and destruction in the world of "organisms" cannot develop independently in the face of problems and real life. In today's society, it is necessary to create your own unrealistic world, but most of the time, people who have become isolated in their own society have cycled their lives on alcohol, drugs, computer games, and then on speeches that create the illusion of the world without problems that turbot. I think that such people are followers of hermits. And yet, earlier, self-sufficient people went to the forest, so that they would be alone with nature, but now the “deserts” are overwhelmed all the time from their fallow land. Іsnuє one more way of creation of "thorough" suspіlstva - religious sects. At the same time, people, living on a better life, are ready to say everything that they think, to unknown people, as they often appear as shakhrai. I respect that you should try to cope with the problems and the shortcomings of the world’s suspres- tivity є unpromising. Let's take a look at all three ways of piece creation of a new world: political, individual and religious. Let's start with the political. As a show of history, organizations that tick in the face of the injustice of the present supremacy, create more injustice in their own lives, and sometimes create a dictatorship. Let's look at the butt, which everyone knows - pobudov to communism, which started under the fumes, which inspired the "ideal" world, and ended with totalitarian supremacy. Now we are going to the individual path - people, as if they were the handcuffs of their fallow land, simply physically cannot continue normally, and often end up too badly. Religious sects - the whole death of the special people. The founders of the sects crush the character of things that they have consumed, and they are afraid of themselves. That’s why I think that you don’t need to try to create your “unbelievable” scrolls, but to grow up to a clear understanding of a successful person, you need to follow Russell: bravely invade the world, don’t be afraid of folding those failures, mother your life Aje, developing ourselves, we improve our suspense, promote our morality, we form other moral principles in the suspense, attaching respect to our enlightenment of that culture, we rob our suspense to those who are significant! A skin person can choose, how to know the place in your life. I have taken Bertrand Russell's way - to go nazustrich light. And at the end, I would like to write my own verses, the folds of a sprig of months, which in the period of doubts and see me guessing about my choice:

It is easy to deprive this world,

I dream of forgetting, to break up.

Aje, how far away are my thoughts

And so accept that you can’t sleep,

You forget about everything

What lies in the head to be confused.

You are neither alive nor dead,

Living with dreams, ruining your action ...

From the sea of ​​\u200b\u200bdumok you do not splive,

You don’t fall in love with illusions ...

I what! Let's go smoothly

Forget Utopia

Not shy to the vіri that mercy

Realities, happy pardon.

Ale ti live, fight, suffer,

Abo from the eyes of the thick stream

Alive, hot tears shed,

If you're not alive, but you'll die...